WELCOME! ~ A LITTLE ABOUT THIS BLOG...

For many years, I have collected and continue to collect quotes, thoughts, & stories. It gives me the opportunity to ponder, to meditate, and be inspired to greater heights. I have a passion for life, for my religion, for the goodness of life. Through all this, it has uplifted my soul, & made me stronger emotionally & spiritually.

I thought I would share with you, as well as my own random thoughts, testimony builders, a few funnies and so forth to also give you the same opportunity.

I do hope that you enjoy this blog... and feel free to comment ~ preferably positive thoughts, as this is what this blog is all about.

09 December 2010

Never Leave Him

"Perfection does not come in this life, but we exercise faith in the Lord Jesus Christ and keep our covenants. President Monson has promised, “Your testimony, when constantly nourished, will keep you safe.” We push our spiritual roots deep, feasting daily on the words of Christ in the scriptures. We trust in the words of living prophets, placed before us to show us the way. We pray and pray and listen to the quiet voice of the Holy Ghost that leads us along and speaks peace to our soul. Whatever challenges arise, we never, never leave Him." --Neil L. Andersen, "Never Leave Him", General Conference October 2010

19 November 2010

17 November 2010

Of Things That Matter Most

"Let us simplify our lives a little. Let us make the changes necessary to refocus our lives on the sublime beauty of the simple, humble path of Christian discipleship—the path that leads always toward a life of meaning, gladness, and peace."
--President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "Of Things That Matter Most", Media Name

Repent That I May Heal You

"The invitation to repent is rarely a voice of chastisement but rather a loving appeal to turn around and to “re-turn” toward God. It is the beckoning of a loving Father and His Only Begotten Son to be more than we are, to reach up to a higher way of life, to change, and to feel the happiness of keeping the commandments. Being disciples of Christ, we rejoice in the blessing of repenting and the joy of being forgiven. They become part of us, shaping the way we think and feel."
--Neil L. Andersen, "Repent That I May Heal You’", Ensign, Nov 2009, 40–43

28 October 2010

Seeking to Know God, Our Heavenly Father, and His Son, Jesus Christ

"Without God, life would end at the grave and our mortal experiences would have no purpose. Growth and progress would be temporary, accomplishment without value, challenges without meaning. There would be no ultimate right and wrong and no moral responsibility to care for one another as fellow children of God. Indeed, without God, there would be no mortal or eternal life."
--Robert D. Hales, "“Seeking to Know God, Our Heavenly Father, and His Son, Jesus Christ", Ensign, Nov 2009, 29–32

25 October 2010

Quote by Rev. David King on Children

"How can a child do better if their environment stays the same?"
Rev. David King, pastor of Community Baptist Church

Reflections on a Consecrated Life

"Every day, every hour, every minute of your span of mortal years must sometime be accounted for. And it is in this life that you walk by faith and prove yourself able to choose good over evil, right over wrong, enduring happiness over mere amusement. And your eternal reward will be according to your choosing."
--D. Todd Christofferson, "Reflections on a Consecrated Life", Media Name

Meridian Magazine - The Parenting Problem Called Entitlement

Meridian Magazine - The Parenting Problem Called Entitlement

23 October 2010

Opportunity for Change in Marriage

Being married creates the opportunity for change. When you're married, you find out how much you need to improve yourself. It is prideful & selfish for anyone to get married & think they don't need to change in any way. Each of us needs to change in many ways, some more than others, but God will start with the one who is willing. And the good news is, this is where His blessings will be directed first. -S Omartian

14 September 2010

Meridian Magazine - Waiting for Rescue

Meridian Magazine - Waiting for Rescue

This is a great article and I would highly recommend it to anyone that may be struggling with a trial that they may feel that God has left them hanging.

17 August 2010

Meridian Magazine - The Lord is Not the Accuser - Meridian Magazine

Meridian Magazine - The Lord is Not the Accuser - Meridian Magazine

Reverence

"Reverence is the soul of true religion. It’s seedbed is sincerity. Its quality is determined by the esteem in which one holds the object of his reverence as evidenced by his behavior toward that object. When that object is God, the genuinely reverent person has a worshipful adoration coupled with a respectful behavior toward him and all that pertains to him. The want of such appreciation or behavior smacks of irreverence. Order is a part of reverence. So is cleanliness of person, of apparel, of speech, of action, and of thought and impulse. So also are courtesy, respect for one another, and kindred virtues. Reverence is a sign of spiritual maturity, strength, and nobility."
--Marion G. Romney, "Reverence", Ensign, Oct. 1976, 2

16 August 2010

Forgiveness: My Burden Was Made Light

I remember this. This was in our neighborhood where we lived at the time. It was really a touching experience of forgiveness for me, and I had hoped that if I was ever presented the trial of forgiving someone in such a circumstance or any circumstance for that matter, that I ...would have worked daily to have the spirit in my life to be in the right frame of mind and to be able to have the spirit that I would be able to do forgive right then and there.

Forgiveness is such a huge key in anyone's life, something that heals and mends not only your heart, but those around you, and that also strengthens beyond anything you can imagine unless you've really applied forgiveness in your life. Just my 2 cents, because I have encountered many things that forgiveness has been in the forefront of my mind to mend the hurt.

What an amazing and wonderful opportunity for everyone to practice such forgiveness in their lives and those around them. Just as this short video says "there is Jesus' way.... or there is some other way..." We are to better ourselves as Jesus has taught us, so taking the opportunity to follow in the example of Jesus helps us to be in a better world, in our own lives and again, the lives of others. What a better place this world would be if everyone practiced this in their life!

DO YOU ACT -- OR REACT?

Condensed from the Chicago Daily News by Sydney J. Harris

"I walked with my friend, a Quaker, to a newsstand the other night, and he bought a paper, thanking the newsie politely. The newsie didn't even acknowledge it.

'A sullen fellow, isn't he?' I commented.

'Oh, he's that way every night,' shrugged my friend.

'Then why do you continue to be so polite to him?' I asked.

'Why not?' inquired my friend. 'Why should I let him decide how I am going to act?'

As I thought about this incident later, it occurred to me that the important word was 'act'. My friend acts toward people; most of us react toward them. He has a sense of inner balance which is lacking in most of us, he knows who he is, what he stands for, how he should behave. He refuses to return to incivility for incivility, because then he would no longer be in command of his own conduct."

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We always have room for improvement. I think for me, this is a work in progress. I have accomplished a lot with this frame of mind, this attitude. But the "natural man" in all of us tends to react. Teaching ourselves to act is hard sometimes, but so much better for our inner well-being and for those around us.

14 August 2010

Glory of God

The heavens declare the glory of a God, and the firmament showeth His handiwork; and a moment's reflection is sufficient to teach every man of common intelligence, that all these are not the mere productions of chance, nor could they be supported by any power less than an Almighty hand; and He that can mark the power of Omnipotence, inscribed upon the heavens, can also see God's own handwriting in the sacred volume. -- Joseph Smith, The Prophet

12 August 2010

Obeying “the Whisperings of the Holy Ghost

"We do not know the future, but our Father in Heaven does, and He will lead and guide us if we let Him. When we are in tune with the Spirit, we will see many small miracles happen in our lives. I have found that having the ability to see and recognize these small miracles is based upon my spiritual worthiness, my willingness to be obedient, and my desire to not allow myself to become complacent and caught up in worldly and personal pursuits."
--Ronald T. Halverson, "Obeying “the Whisperings of the Holy Ghost", Ensign, Aug 2007, 56–58

Meridian Magazine - Happy Birthday, Primary!

Meridian Magazine - Happy Birthday, Primary!

"This week marks the 132nd birthday of the Primary of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. On August 11, 1878, the Farmington (Utah) Primary Association was formally organized with Aurelia Spencer Rogers sustained as president. Two weeks later on August 25, 215 children attended the first Primary meeting at the rock chapel in Farmington."

Fabulous! We love the Primary! We love serving in the Primary (my husband and I teach the Valiant 10 kids.) The spirit from the children is always a breath of fresh air!

02 August 2010

Circumstances

People are always blaming
their circumstances
for what they are.
I don't believe in circumstances.
The people who get on in this world
are the people who get up and look
for the circumstances they want,
and if they can't find them,
make them.
--George Bernard Shaw

01 August 2010

Choices

"We are either the masters or the victims of our 'paradigms'. It is a matter of personal choice. Who we are today is the result of choices made yesterday. Tomorrow we will become what we choose today. To change means to choose to change."
-John C. Maxwell

09 July 2010

Meridian Magazine :: Family Connections: Seek To Understand: Successful Parenting Tips

Meridian Magazine :: Family Connections: Seek To Understand: Successful Parenting Tips

This is excellent! In not only seeing different eyes with our children, but I think it can relate to other people around us, including our spouses, friends, and other family members. Great read! Loved it!

03 July 2010

LDS Living Magazine

This is from:

Young Women Lesson 26: The Sacrament

Manual 2; Supplement from ''Sacrament Meeting and the Sacrament''
by Dallin H. Oaks

The ordinance of the sacrament makes the sacrament meeting the most sacred and important meeting in the Church.

To see more, go here: LDS Living Magazine


I personally LOVE the sacrament, renewing my covenants - almost a breath of fresh air to start a new week. I have gained more testimony each year for my own personal experience, and for the sacrament itself. I am so grateful for the opportunity that I have to partake of the sacrament, it is such a strength to me, something that is sacred to me as well.

LDS Living Magazine

This is from:

Young Men Lesson 26: Worthy Thoughts

Manual 2; Supplement from ''Let Virtue Garnish Thy Thoughts Unceasingly''
by Gordon B. Hinckley

There is no limit to your potential. If you will take control of your lives, the future is filled with opportunity and gladness.

To see more of this lesson, go here: LDS Living Magazine

Wow, this is a great subject... for anyone - our thoughts are so important in keeping us morally clean, which in turn helps us to keep closer to God, to have a relationship with him. It is truly a powerful thing. Those that take on pornography in their lives destroy so much of themselves and those that love them, something to definitely stay away from. I have seen marriages destroyed from this, amongst other aspects that tie into the same spectrum. Not even that, but I know that when we delve into things that desensitizes us from the spirit, we become more captive into Satan's world and not the wonderful world that God has given us. Life is much more simple, more happy, more peaceful, more wonderful when we do those things that keep the spirit in our hearts, in our homes, in our relationships with those around us. 
I came across this today while on my email updates with Meridian Magazine, and I wanted to share it because I have such a passion with strengthening marriage, even when aspects have made the marriage get to the end of the thread. This is just one of MANY wonderful links I can share with you. I believe some of them I have right on the home page of this site... I'll have to think about sharing a whole bunch of great links that I have helped strengthen myself and my marriage as well.

I do have to note in this as I have had many friends who have been in toxic marriage relationships that they've tried to work through, but they cannot obviously do it on their own. I think if both parties worked towards the goal at hand it could work - but the common phrase of "it takes two to tango" really does apply. One cannot put all the blame on the other, one cannot say they are exempt from mistakes and their spouse is the problem, one cannot simply push the responsibility of oneself away from issues at hand and pretend that they aren't there amongst so many other things that can be toxic, such as abuse (in all its forms) - controlling abuse, emotional, spiritual, physical and so on. I'm going to have to touch more on this subject since it is such a passion on both sides of the spectrum.

Anyway, here is the link that I found very enlightening:

STRENGTHENING MARRIAGE.COM

01 July 2010

They Marked the Path to Follow



"Noah had the unwavering faith to follow God’s commandments. May we ever do likewise. May we remember that the wisdom of God ofttimes appears as foolishness to men; but the greatest lesson we can learn in mortality is that when God speaks and we obey, we will always be right."
--Thomas S. Monson, "They Marked the Path to Follow", Ensign, Oct 2007, 4–9
Mosiah 2:22
Keep the Commandments, Hymn #303

This is and has always been one of my favorite quotes... esp the part where it says: "when God speaks and we obey, we will always be right."  I can't tell you how many times this has given me comfort in my life - no matter the trial, if we obey his laws, if we obey his answers that he gives to us, we will always be right. Wonderful! 

23 June 2010

The Family is Eternal

"The family is eternal. Love must be nurtured. It must be spoken. We must put away our pride, our haughtiness, our shyness, our misunderstandings, and with humility say, "I love you. Is there something I can do to help you?" You can never be completely happy under any other circumstances."
Marjorie Pay Hinckley

16 June 2010

Email : What Would Jesus Do?

The light turned yellow, just in front of him. He did the right thing, topping at the crosswalk, even though he could have beaten the red light by accelerating through the intersection.

The tailgating woman was furious and honked her horn, screaming in frustration, as she missed her chance to get through the intersection, dropping her cell phone and makeup.

As she was still in mid-rant, she heard a tap on her window and looked up into the face of a very serious police officer. The officer ordered her to exit her car with her hands up.

He took her to the police station where she was searched, fingerprinted, photographed, and placed in a holding cell.

After a couple of hours, a policeman approached the cell and opened the door. She was escorted back to the booking desk where the arresting officer was waiting with her personal effects.

He said, ''I'm very sorry for this mistake. You see, I pulled up behind your car while you were blowing your horn, flipping off the guy in front of you and cussing a blue streak at him. I noticed the 'What Would Jesus Do' bumper sticker, the 'Choose Life' license plate holder, the 'Follow Me to Sunday-School' bumper sticker, and the chrome-plated Christian fish emblem on the trunk, so naturally....I assumed you had stolen the car.''

Priceless.

Meridian Magazine :: Spiritual Journeys: Standing on Holy Ground

Meridian Magazine :: Spiritual Journeys: Standing on Holy Ground

Love this article, because I simply love the temple - it is such a beautiful & holy place to be. And I love going to the temple, I love the spiritual refuge that it gives from the worldly storm that is very abundantly around us each day. I love the spiritual strength I gain each time I go... So this article was just something that I loved because of what I love and because it also makes me more aware or even just give me a reminder of what I need to do to make my visit to the temple that more holy.

Sorting a Box of Quotes & Stories

In trying to clean out the office closet today, I have come to realize that I really need to do the goal I set out to accomplish several months ago that hasn't remotely been touched. I have a box of quotes, stories, thoughts etc. that I have collected over the years. Things that are uplifting to me and things that just make me smile. I have wanted to get them all on a disc, for which that means I need to just start typing them out, and getting them into subject folders. So, while I am endeavoring to do just that, I will also share with you (hopefully daily) if I am to get this done in the near future, my box of quotes, stories, and thoughts. So... ENJOY while I sort this all out!

Becoming Self-Reliant

"We become self-reliant through obtaining sufficient knowledge, education, and literacy; by managing money and resources wisely, being spiritually strong, preparing for emergencies and eventualities; and by having physical health and social and emotional well-being." Julie B. Beck, Relief Society general president.

"Self-reliance is taking responsibility for our own spiritual and temporal welfare and for those whom Heavenly Father has entrusted to our care... Our ultimate goal is to become like the Savior, and that goal is enhanced by our unselfish service to others. Our ability to serve is increased or diminished by the level of our self-reliance." Elder Robert D. Hales

"The responsibility for each person's social, emotional, spiritual, physical, or economic well-being rests first upon himself, second upon his family, and third upon the Church if he is a faithful member thereof." President Spencer W. Kimball

14 June 2010

Meridian Magazine : : Church Update: Children of Promise: Cultural Celebration in the Philippines

Meridian Magazine : : Church Update: Children of Promise: Cultural Celebration in the Philippines

Quotes

Last week's thought:

"Problems give us the ability to hang on and that ability changes who we are. When our character is permanently molded by the trials we are stronger and the end result is hope."
Dave Ramsey


This week's thought:

We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust our sails.

31 May 2010

Children & Voice of the Lord

"In the soft and gentle arms of a mother's love, children can come to know the voice of the Lord."
Dwan J. Young

30 May 2010

Fire on the Farm by Scot Facer Proctor

My Journey: Fire on the Farm: By Scot Facer Proctor

What an amazing journey of faith. This just a great reminder to me that in ALL of our trials, even ones that we might just fled from before thinking to pray, we must pray. Great testimony builder!

17 May 2010

A Mother's Influence

"Nothing a woman can ever do will have anywhere near as much importance as
the influence she has as a mother." --George D. Durrant

10 May 2010

Be a Mother who is Committed...

  "Be a Mother who is committed to loving her children into standing on higher ground than the enviroment surrounding them. Mother's are endowed with a love that is unlike any other love on the face of the earth."
— Marjorie Pay Hinckley

04 May 2010

Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: When Yesterday’s Burden Isn’t Lighter Today

Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: When Yesterday’s Burden Isn’t Lighter Today

More than Melody by Jamie Cline

Everyone knows that music influences people—that it holds a special power all its own. But what are its "magical properties?" --See the full article here: LDS Living Magazine

Are We Not All Mothers?

"As mothers in Israel, we are the Lord’s secret weapon. Our influence comes from a divine endowment that has been in place from the beginning. In the premortal world, when our Father described our role, I wonder if we didn’t stand in wide-eyed wonder that He would bless us with a sacred trust so central to His plan and that He would endow us with gifts so vital to the loving and leading of His children. I wonder if we shouted for joy at least in part because of the ennobling stature He gave us in His kingdom. The world won’t tell you that, but the Spirit will."
--Sheri L. Dew, "Are We Not All Mothers?", Ensign, Nov 2001, 96
Isaiah 2:5
Teach Me to Walk in the Light, Hymn #304

03 May 2010

Mothers

"Mother, you ought to cultivate in your hearts the spirit of peace; you ought to be like angels of God, full of every virtue."
John Taylor

29 April 2010

Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: How Can God Say “Fear Not”?

Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: How Can God Say “Fear Not”?

The Atonement & Faith

"Faith in the Lord is trust in the Lord. We cannot have true faith in the Lord without also having complete trust in the Lord’s will and in the Lord’s timing. As a result, no matter how strong our faith is, it cannot produce a result contrary to the will of Him in whom we have faith. Remember that when your prayers do not seem to be answered in the way or at the time you desire. The exercise of faith in the Lord Jesus Christ is always subject to the order of heaven, to the goodness and will and wisdom and timing of the Lord. When we have that kind of faith and trust in the Lord, we have true security and serenity in our lives."
--Dallin H. Oaks, "The Atonement and Faith", Ensign, Apr 2010, 30–34
2 Nephi 2:7
I Believe in Christ, Hymn #134

26 April 2010

Principles

"The good thing about principles is that they make life easy."
Dave Ramsey

23 April 2010

Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: Redefining Our Self

Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: Redefining Our Self

Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: The Spiritual Stress Cycle

Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: The Spiritual Stress Cycle

Meridian Magazine :: Arts: Watching Movies on the Sabbath?

I love this, because we do the same in our family. We do our best to keep the Sabbath day Holy, and part of that is that we don't do things we would normally do during the week. If the kids want to watch a movie, that is fine, but it has to be something that is spiritually uplifting, something that turns our hearts to our Savior. There are several movies that you can get at the LDS Distribution Center, Seagull Book & Tape, or even Deseret Book to name a few that have some great spiritually uplifting movies for the whole family. We also love the movie Facing the Giants - which is absolutely spiritually moving!

Meridian Magazine :: Arts: Watching Movies on the Sabbath?

Seek the Higher Ground

22 April 2010

How I learned to mind my own business

I got this in an email, and it just made me smile. I thought I would share it with you.

I was walking past the mental hospital the other day, I could hear a lot of the patients shouting, '13....13....13.'

The fence was too high to see over, but I saw a little gap in the planks, so I looked through to see what was going on.....

Some idiot poked me in the eye with a stick!

Then they all started shouting, '14....14....14'...

Have We Not Reason to Rejoice?

"Enduring to the end, or remaining faithful to the laws and ordinances of the gospel of Jesus Christ throughout our life, is a fundamental requirement for salvation in the kingdom of God...Therefore, enduring to the end is not just a matter of passively tolerating life’s difficult circumstances or “hanging in there.” Ours is an active religion, helping God’s children along the strait and narrow path to develop their full potential during this life and return to Him one day... Enduring to the end is a process filling every minute of our life, every hour, every day, from sunrise to sunrise. It is accomplished through personal discipline following the commandments of God."
--Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "Have We Not Reason to Rejoice?", Ensign, Nov 2007, 18–21
D&C 14:7
Does the Journey Seem Long, Hymn #127

20 April 2010

Mothers

"As mothers in Israel, we are the Lord’s secret weapon. Our influence comes from a divine endowment that has been in place from the beginning. In the premortal world, when our Father described our role, I wonder if we didn’t stand in wide-eyed wonder that He would bless us with a sacred trust so central to His plan and that He would endow us with gifts so vital to the loving and leading of His children. I wonder if we shouted for joy at least in part because of the ennobling stature He gave us in His kingdom. The world won’t tell you that, but the Spirit will."
--Sheri L. Dew, "Are We Not All Mothers?", Ensign, Nov 2001, 96
Moses 4:26
I Often Go Walking, The Children's Songbook #202

12 April 2010

Scripture Enlightening Moment

Last night, I read in The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ, Alma 24:30, it reads "And thus we can plainly discern, that after a people have been once enlightened by the Spirit of God, and have had great knowledge of things pertaining to righteousness, and then have fallen away into sin and transgression, they become more hardened, and thus their state becomes worse than though they had never known these things."

I think about this, in that we all sin, but if we fall into sin w/out repentance, and part of repentance is acknowledging the wrong (our own actions or not actions) in the first place. But even with the atonement, if a trial you're going through is a direct result of someone else we can still put these trials in the Lord's hands, do our best and move forward. I think sometimes people blame others even if it isn't their fault - either way, you have a choice not to stay in misery, you have a choice to leave it behind you, forgive, forget, and move forward. We've all been given a great gift of atonement, we have all be given the opportunity to choose a better path, through prayer and through the spirit or the holy ghost we can know truth, we can gain a testimony and we can move forward by nurturing. If we altogether stop nurturing, of course our strong testimony is going to falter, doubts will come, bitterness, hate, depression amongst so many other feelings that can either destroy our knowledge of truth or strengthen our knowledge of truth. And you know, truth will set you free esp if you choose to take that truth into your life and live it.

Blessings

"God tends to pour blessing on people going in a direction He wants them to go."
Dave Ramsey

29 March 2010

Meridian Magazine :: Family Home Evening: Having Christ in Your Countenance

I have seen this before, probably have done it in Young Woman's at one time, but I think it is a great teaching tool. In fact, I think we might just do that with Hunter next FHE. Tonight, I'd like to focus on the true meaning of Easter.

Meridian Magazine :: Family Home Evening: Having Christ in Your Countenance

21 March 2010

Nick Vujicic :: Attitude is Altitude :: No Arms, No Legs, No Worries

This is amazing! This is motivating! This is a reminder to count our blessings in our life! This is a reminder when life feels like it isn't getting any better, to remember to never give up, to remember the life is a gift, that life is absolutely wonderful! Trials are for a short time, if we choose to work through them and come out for the better!

Nick Vujicic :: Attitude is Altitude :: No Arms, No Legs, No Worries

18 March 2010

Meridian Magazine:: People: Behind the Scenes of the LDS Miracle Story Featured on Today Show

This is absolutely inspirational! A must read! Make sure you watch the YouTube video at the end. God is Good, Faith does promote miracles.God is a God of miracles, absolutely!

What a great example that the Staker family had in showing the world about faith and the outcome of putting forth faith.

Meridian Magazine:: People: Behind the Scenes of the LDS Miracle Story Featured on Today Show

Meridian Magazine :: Family Connections: What Can You Really Control?

Meridian Magazine :: Family Connections: What Can You Really Control?

Meridian Magazine :: Can Do Youth: The Master’s Success Formula

Meridian Magazine :: Can Do Youth: The Master’s Success Formula

Meridian Magazine:: Becoming a Zion Person: My Yoke is Easy and My Burden is Light

Meridian Magazine:: Becoming a Zion Person: My Yoke is Easy and My Burden is Light

'Love Language Minute: What is love?'

'Love Language Minute: What is love?'

This reminds me a lot of the movie "Fireproof" and the book that originated from the movie, "The Love Dare." Love is definitely a choice.

17 March 2010

Relief Society Birthday

The Relief Society was founded by the Prophet Joseph Smith in 1842 in Nauvoo, Illinois. The Relief Society serves under the direction of the priesthood. It assists priesthood leaders to help sisters and their families come unto Christ. It helps each sister and their families receive all essential priesthood ordinances, keep the associated covenants, and qualify for exaltation and eternal life.

The following objectives support the purpose of Relief Society:

1. Build faith in the Lord Jesus Christ and His Atonement.
2. Uphold, nourish, and protect families.
3. Provide Relief.

All women 18 years and older as well as women younger than 18 who are married or are single mothers, are welcomed into the sisterhood of Relief Society.

The motto is "Charity Never Faileth".

15 March 2010

I Was Really Here

"I don't want to drive up to the pearly gates in a shiny sports car, wearing beautiful tailored clothes, my hair expertly coiffed, and with long, perfectly manicured fingernails. I want to drive up in a station wagon that has mud on the wheels from taking kids to scout camp. I want to be there with grass stains on my shoes from mowing Sister Schenk's lawn. I want to be there with a smudge of peanut butter on my shirt form making sandwiches for a sick neighbor's children. I want to be there with a little dirt under my nails from helping weed someone's garden. I want to be there with children's sticky kisses on my cheek and the tears of a friend on my shoulder. I want the Lord to know I was really here and that I really lived. "
— Marjorie Pay Hinckley

I absolutely love Marjorie Hinckley and miss her wit and insight. This is one of my favorite quotes from her, including the one where she says something along the lines of choosing laughter over crying, because crying gives her a headache. Choices can make or break us, sometimes they break us for a little bit and we are made to our fullest potential in the end, but it is the choices that get us there. It's also about changing our perception to see how blessed we really are, leaving the wants behind and cherishing what we have in the here and now. I know, as I have seen it in my own life and others, that when we do our part that the Lord expects of us, hopes of us, He in turn can do His part and bless us in ways that we never thought possible. I love being a mom, and am grateful for the opportunity that I can be a mom after the many challenges I have faced with several miscarriages and coming to a point that I thought that I would never have this blessing in my life. I have my days, as everyone does of pulling my hair out --- maybe that is where all my gray comes from. But nevertheless, I do enjoy the life that has been given to me and do my best to make the choices that like Marjorie Hinckley, I want the Lord to know I was really here and that I really lived.

10 March 2010

Meridian Magazine : : Rescuing Wayward Children: Learning about Forgiveness from Job

Meridian Magazine : : Rescuing Wayward Children: Learning about Forgiveness from Job

Forgiveness is an amazing part of life, even when we may feel like the person you're needing to forgive doesn't deserve it. Everyone should be forgiven, no one is perfect, we all make mistakes, even if this person has made choices in their life that may affect the rest of your life, forgiveness is a must. God expects us to forgive, so that we may be forgiven of our own shortcomings.

I know that for me, I have had to forgive many people throughout my life. Some instances were a lot harder than others, and some have taken a lengthy amount of time - but being in the process vs. not being in the process is better in that you're working on improvement. I also know that forgiveness will set you free in so many ways, moving forward to higher ground.

Have you ever found that if you're holding a grudge, it truly just affects you more than the person you're holding the grudge against? Forgive them. The atonement is there for all of us, take it upon yourself and you will feel a sense of newness in your life. I know that I have many times over.

Meridian Magazine :: Articles : The Awesome Promise of the Brain in Our Spiritual Future

Meridian Magazine :: Articles : The Awesome Promise of the Brain in Our Spiritual Future

I love this article because it really makes me reflect on asking the question - what am I doing to add the goodness of God in every way I can to my mind? I do think this is an important aspect in ones life, in how we reflect upon our trials, our triumphs, how we make choices in our lives. So, what are you doing to increase the spiritual nourishment of your mind? What can you take out of your days that might be dampening the spiritual nourishment? All great questions to think about, to act upon, and to strengthen yourself!

09 March 2010

The Power of Prayer

My boys and I were in AZ last week for my niece's wedding. The night before we were to fly out, I was packing and realized that I hadn't seen my oldest son's stuffed animal kitty. I recruited all the nieces and nephews to help search the house, and we looked in ever nook and cranny several times, coming up with nothing. With Hunter (my oldest) being on the verge of tears, I told him there was one last thing we could do - pray. Hunter said a sweet little prayer summoning Heavenly Father to please help him to find his kitty. Less than 5 minutes later, Hunter found his kitty in a spot that was looked at several times but the kitty never was seen there. What a great experience to plant a testimony seed in his life. My nephew, Ryan and I said "we should have prayed 30 minutes ago." We probably should have, but this was a great teaching moment nevertheless.

Something I noticed on my sister's fridge says this: ASAP - Always Say A Prayer. I think that is a great reminder that no matter what situation we are in, whether it be a trial, or a joyous occasion, or to simply find something that you're looking for, like Hunter's kitty - we should remember ASAP - Always Say A Prayer. 

01 March 2010

Small and Simple Thing

"Think about your particular assignment at this time in your life. It may be to get an education, it may be to rear children, it may be to be a grandparent, it may be to care for an relieve the suffering of someone you love, it may be to do a job in the most excellent way possible, it may be to support someone who has a difficult assignment of their own. Our assignments are varied and they change from time to time. Don't take them lightly. Give them your full heart and energy. Do them with enthusiasm. Do whatever you have to do this week with your whole heart and soul. To do less than this will leave you with an empty feeling."
— Marjorie Pay Hinckley (Small and Simple Things)

23 February 2010

Simplify

"We women have a lot to learn about simplifying our lives. We have to decide what is important and then move along at a pace that is comfortable for us. We have to develop the maturity to stop trying to prove something. We have to learn to be content with what we are."
— Marjorie Pay Hinckley

12 February 2010

LDS.org - Ensign Article - Life after Life

LDS.org - Ensign Article - Life after Life

My Sister in Haiti

I have never been to Haiti myself, but I have felt such a connection with the Haitians through my sister who has been going there for years with Healing Hands for Haiti. In light of recent catastrophic events, she was requested by Operation Smile to go with their medical team to Haiti for a couple of weeks. I found out last night that she has a blog of her and the teams' journey with the Haitian people. It is inspirational as the people there have such amazing attitudes towards all they have been through, and have such a strong relationship with God in their lives - what great testimonies and examples they are to the world. At the same time, it is heart breaking and I have been overwhelmed with emotion through the news reports, what my sister has shared, and just an overall proud feeling of what my sister is doing to offer her help --  you will need a box of tissues when you read her blog. I am so happy that she is able to go there and help these good people, I wish I could be a nurse right now to be able to help as she is, as she states that they need more nurses.
Please read her blog and share with others! Thank you!

Cathie in Haiti

04 February 2010

May You Have Courage

"My final plea tonight is that you have the courage to stand firm for truth and righteousness. Because the trend in society today is away from the values and principles the Lord has given us, you will almost certainly be called upon to defend that which you believe. Unless the roots of your testimony are firmly planted, it will be difficult for you to withstand the ridicule of those who challenge your faith. When firmly planted, your testimony of the gospel, of the Savior, and of our Heavenly Father will influence all that you do throughout your life. The adversary would like nothing better than for you to allow derisive comments and criticism of the Church to cause you to question and doubt. Your testimony, when constantly nourished, will keep you safe."
--Thomas S. Monson, "May You Have Courage", Ensign, May 2009, 123–27
Alma 53:20–21
Stand for the Right, The Children's Songbook #159

29 January 2010

Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: I Want More . . .

Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: I Want More . . .

Meridian Magazine :: Myth of the Month: The First and Great Promise

Meridian Magazine :: Myth of the Month: The First and Great Promise

Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: The Friday Minute—Be Where You Are

Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: The Friday Minute—Be Where You Are

I've experienced this before from others who are too involved with their text messaging or phone calls, even though they are spending time with you. So frustrating. This is a great read!

Meridian Magazine : : Church Update: “I Just Had to Come”—On the Plane to Haiti

Meridian Magazine : : Church Update: “I Just Had to Come”—On the Plane to Haiti

28 January 2010

To Acquire Spiritual Guidance

"Impressions of the Spirit can come in response to urgent prayer or unsolicited when needed. Sometimes the Lord reveals truth to you when you are not actively seeking it, such as when you are in danger and do not know it. However, the Lord will not force you to learn. You must exercise your agency to authorize the Spirit to teach you. As you make this a practice in your life, you will be more perceptive to the feelings that come with spiritual guidance. Then, when that guidance comes, sometimes when you least expect it, you will recognize it more easily."
--Richard G. Scott, "To Acquire Spiritual Guidance", Ensign, Nov 2009, 6–9

D&C 84:43–45
Oh, Holy Words of Truth and Love, Hymn #271

Anne Perry :: Letters from the Highlands—January 2010: Needing to Believe this Journey Has a Destination

Anne Perry :: Letters from the Highlands—January 2010: Needing to Believe this Journey Has a Destination

23 January 2010

Asking for Change


"Questions can be powerful! They can help us to see, feel, think, and do things differently. In fact, I have found that one of the most effective ways to change your life is to simply change the questions you ask yourself, your friends, and the Lord." by Wendy Watson Nelson --- For the full article click this link: LDS Living Magazine

21 January 2010

Meridian Magazine :: Can Do Youth: Trusting our Perfect God

Meridian Magazine :: Can Do Youth: Trusting our Perfect God

Love this part of the article...

The Lord does not abandon his people. He does not send us a trial, an upset, or a job to do without offering a way for us to:

  1. Get through it
  2. Gain blessings from it
  3. Receive strength and guidance in order to do what is necessary
  4. Feel even more of His tender mercies and loving care

18 January 2010

Measuring Life

Life isn't measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

11 January 2010

Home & Family

Having someplace to go is home. Having someone to love is family. Having both is a blessing.

04 January 2010

Sanity

"The statistics on sanity are that one out of every four people is suffering from a mental illness. Look at your 3 best friends. If they're ok, then it's you."
— Rita Mae Brown