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17 November 2010
Repent That I May Heal You
--Neil L. Andersen, "Repent That I May Heal You’", Ensign, Nov 2009, 40–43
28 October 2010
Seeking to Know God, Our Heavenly Father, and His Son, Jesus Christ
--Robert D. Hales, "“Seeking to Know God, Our Heavenly Father, and His Son, Jesus Christ", Ensign, Nov 2009, 29–32
23 October 2010
Opportunity for Change in Marriage
Being married creates the opportunity for change. When you're married, you find out how much you need to improve yourself. It is prideful & selfish for anyone to get married & think they don't need to change in any way. Each of us needs to change in many ways, some more than others, but God will start with the one who is willing. And the good news is, this is where His blessings will be directed first. -S Omartian
14 August 2010
Glory of God
12 February 2010
My Sister in Haiti
Please read her blog and share with others! Thank you!
Cathie in Haiti
20 December 2009
Follow the Path of Joy by H. Wallance Goddard
LDS Social Services Seminar, 24 April 1993, Atlanta
"I had gone to scout camp every summer for several years. But one year was different from others. On the first day of camp a distinct impression came to me: "Your little sister has been bitten by a rattlesnake." Rattlesnakes were not uncommon around our mountain home and Lorene played outside often. I fretted: "Shall I ask my scoutmaster to hike out of our mountain retreat and rive me home? What can I do for Lorene? Will she die?" I was miserable. The camp lasted 5 days. Ever day I worried. Every day I wondered if I should ask to be taken home. It seemed like an eternity... but finally the week ended. As we drove up to the house my heart was pounding... There was Lorene in the front yard riding her trike. No one had seen a snake all week.
What had happened? Why had I been so sure and so wrong? The answer is simple (though I didn't think of it for 20 years): the devil. Misery is his specialty. And lies are his tools. He especially loves "low-grade" misery such as I experienced at scout camp: I had no peace as I worried and fretted all week but I was not so miserable that I got help such as wise counsel from a scoutmaster. I was trapped in my misery.
I witnessed an example of low-grade misery in a recent temple recommend interview. The good brother who had come to me for a recommend confessed that he did not feel worthy of a recommend. I asked him the reasons. Well, he still feels tempted and just doesn't feel that he is doing everything he can. Any sins or misdeeds? No. Just don't feel worthy. Reading the scriptures, attending meetings, wanting to be acceptable to God? Yes. And he began to weep. We talked about the voice of God. If there are things amiss in his life God will be glad to direct him in helpful, specific ways. He will invite him to repent and have joy. But God does not nag, chide, badger, bedevil, heckle, henpeck, plague, or scold. He invites, entices, encourages, teaches, guides, and loves. His feeling of unworthiness was probably a message from the devil, not Father. Father will give him support and guidance in repentance. Satan sends discouragement. Messages from Satan do no deserve our attention.
Sometimes we assume that the devil's objective is to get us to sin. But The Book of Mormon tells us that his objective is to make us miserable. Getting us to sin is one way he can accomplish that living, no hope in Christ, no faith in redemption, no love for others. In fact, it must be fiendishly delightful to him when he can get us working hard to be good while feeling miserable that we are not better. We don't have to sin to be miserable. We only have to believe Satan's lies.
Anytime the message we feel is disabling guilt, we may know that the message is not coming from Father. Even the godly sorrow associated with sin has a sweetness that accompanies broken-heartedness. We feel miserable that we would offend our dearest friend; but we feel the warmth of His infinite love. We feel hope. We feel in invitation to be clean. We feel welcomed. Even after committing sin, God greets the penitent as He did the prodigal son, with open arms and the royal robe.
The devil deals in all forms of misery including anxiety, guilt, doubt, hate and fear. A good friend was visiting in our home, expressing her feelings and asking for advice. "I'm so concerned. I have a nagging worry that our little boy is going to fall in the canal and drown. I worry about it all the time... We need to move to another neighborhood."
"By their fruits ye shall know them." The friend's anxiety is a good example of that nagging, disabling feeling that comes from Satan. It is possible that the family should move to get away from the canal. But instruction from God will come with sweetness and guidance. If her son fall sin the canal, she may receive specific instruction to take specific action. But God does not nag. Anxiety is disabling. It is not from God. When the devil can get us feeling both disturbed and helpless at the same time, he is fiendishly pleased.
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith," (Galatians 5:22)
The devil uses not only emotions that are clearly negative, such as anxiety, but also emotions that we may mistake as useful, necessary, or from God. Built provides a good case in point. Guilt comes from the devil. Godly sorrow comes from Father. They may seem very similar. But the difference between them is the difference between their sources. The devil wants us to be discouraged, to give up, to hate ourselves, even to be absorbed in our badness. The Lord wants us to recognize that we are unable to be saved and cleansed without His help. As Moses said: "I am nothing, which thing I had never known." Mosiah talks of our nothingness, worthless and fallen state. But the Lord would have us use this awareness to realize our dependence upon God, to call upon His power, and to come to "the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ." He is fully able to cleanse, strengthen, purify, and perfect us. If the feeling we have about our sins causes us to give up, it is from Satan. If the feeling causes us to call upon Father in earnest humility, it is from God.
Doubt is another of the devil's tools. Nathaniel Hawthorne said of one of his friends: "He can neither believe, nor be comfortable in his unbelief." Just as the devil would have it. Neither enjoying the joy that the Lord offers nor feeling good about rejecting it. "Damned if the does and damned if he doesn't."
Think about times that you have felt doubt. Maybe you have read an anti-Mormon diatribes and wondered, "Are we mistaken? Are our beliefs as foolish as they make them seem?" I think the important questions is: If we were mistaken, would God ridicule us? No. God would lead us to greater truth. Doubt is not one of his derision and scorn. Doubt is a clear sign of his work. The devil would have us jettison the many witnesses and abundant joy we have experienced just because someone can parody our belief. He knows that double is easier than faith. He doesn't have anything better to offer. He only gives gnawing, miserable skepticism. But Father's messages of joy should be our guide. He testifies of abundant truth.
Satan also loves anger. He wants us to believe that our feelings of anger are justified. "I was angry because of what my neighbor did. After all, he needed to know that what he did was wrong. So I got angry and told him off." The implications is tat the neighbor will be better off for our anger, and that we are justified (even righteous) if we call them to repentance.
When the Lord said "Judgment is mine," I think He was saing that only one who knows everything and loves perfectly can be trust with judgment. Mortals ought to be very content to work with mercy. Many eyars ago it became clear to me that I do not have the right to try to correct anyone I do not love. If I am feeling indignant, angry, or antagonistic, I am unable to help.
Anger comes from the devil. We should ask the Lord for charity to replace judgment, anger, meanness and hate with loving, forgiving, understanding, and helping.
One of the most poignant examples of the principle of joy came in an experience with a beloved friend who shared with me his difficutly in making a career decision. He worried that he was not in tune with the spirit. He felt that the Lord would not guide him because he had disappointed the Lord many times over the previous 20 years. As he tried to make this major decision he doubted his own ability to get inspiration. He feared that he would make a bad decision and ruin his family and professional life. He asked my advice. Two suggestions came to mind:
1, CAST OUT ALL EVIL. Recognize that uncertainty, misery, and doubt (especially self-doubt) are from the devil. Cast them out.
2. FOLLOW THE PATH OF JOY. Take time for peaceful meditation. Consider the career options. Then, without defenses, excuses and worries, sense which course brings the greater joy. Don't let your worries block what your should can say to you. Your soul knows what is right for you.
The Lord said: "Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and yea shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." (Matt. 11:28-30)
The Lord's use of a yoke must have been a very fitting metaphor for a chosen people that were chafing in submission to a gentile nation. The Lord does not promise that there will be no labor in pulling the load. But if I were called upon to pull a lad and if I were yoked side by side with my beloved Savior, no lad would be too great. I would be pleased to be yoked with Him.
Moroni says "All things which are good cometh of Christ." (Moroni 7:24) All things. If it is not good (purposeful, useful, joyous), it is not from Him.
The name "Satan" means "accuser" (Strong's Exhaustive Concordance of the Bible). He has been called the accuser, slanderer, spoiler, and enemy. [See Bible Dictionary "Devil"]
The Savior poignantly describes His relationship with us in Doctrine and Covenants 45:3-5. It is very different from that of the "Accuser." Picture the scene He describes as He escorts us to the judgment bar.
Listen to him who is the advocate with the Father, who is pleading your cause before him--
Saying: Father, behold the sufferings and death of him who did not sin, in whom thou wast well pleased; behold the blood of the Son which was shed, the blood of him whom thou gavest that thyself might be gloried;
Wherefore, Father, spare these my brethren that believe on my name, that they may come unto me and have everlasting life.
Jesus brings us to the judgment bar to plead our case, offering his suffering in paying for our sins. It is a sad perverion of His love that we often think of Jesus as an accuser rather than our advocate! He is the Prince of Peace. Not contention. He sends peace within people so that there may be peace between people. He is in the business of Joy.
George Q. Cannon has said:
Whenever darkness fills our minds, we may know that we are not possessed of the Spirit of God, and we must get rid of it. When we are filled with the Spirit of God we are filled with joy, with peace and with happiness no matter what our circumstances may be; for it is a spirit of cheerfulness and of happiness... Gospel Truth, p.17
May the Lord bless us to recognize His loving voice. And to follow it on the Path to Eternal Joy."
11 November 2009
Peace Offering --- Accepted
It's been three days after my peace offering to our neighbors, and today I got a knock on our door. It was the neighbor who I quarreled with, she had a plate of rice krispie treats, and this is what she said to me "This is my peace offering with you. We won't knock on your door anymore, we understand, as we also have kids. And we'll take care of the bikes. We want to not have contention between us either. We understand."
I can honestly say I was surprised. But through this experience, I have gained a testimony that when we follow in the footsteps of the teachings Jesus, the outcome in some way will be a good one. The response from our neighbor shows that she was touched by my act of kindness to her. She didn't have to make a plate of rice krispie treats, and take the courage to knock on our door, apologize and hand them to me, but she did. The outcome could have been good in so many different ways, the very fact that I had a spiritual renewal was a blessing. I always think about how we might plant seeds in people's lives. You can't choose the outcome, but you can plant the seed and they can choose to make that seed blossom now or in the future. The important part, is that you took the step, you took the higher road, you planted the seed. God is watching over us, and I know that He is pleased with us when we make good choices. It truly is simple, sometimes it feels hard, but it is simple. I am grateful for this experience, and I am grateful for the opportunity of planting a seed that blossomed. I would encourage you, if you're frustrated with someone, or something – take the higher road and you will be blessed for your efforts.
09 November 2009
Taking the Higher Road
My frustrations levels went through the roof, and it was affecting how I felt, my overall feeling about how life currently felt, how I was as a wife and a mother, and probably a friend too.
Over a period of time, I started to be more aware of God reaching out to me during this frustration, and trying to help me take the "higher road." I will be perfectly honest in saying that I was feeling like I was not about to take the higher road because I was angry with them, because I was sick and tired of what we were dealing with on a daily basis, because I just didn't at the time feel it was in me to do it, I just didn't want to.
But, I noticed that my patience levels on a daily basis was dwindling into nothing. I noticed that I felt like a dark cloud every day followed me where ever I went. I was starting to more and more look at the negative vs. the many positive things in my life. I was being dragged down into a hole that I knew if I didn't do something about it soon, I would maybe be hiding in there for some time.
One of my favorite quotes, and I'm not sure who it is by is that when we listen and then follow God, we will always be right. How comforting that is to me. We can't go wrong.
I talked to my friend on my On Wings of Faith group and they encouraged me to take this step. I was totally feeling out of my comfort zone, but I don't think it really was out of my comfort zone, but that Satan simply did not want me to climb into the hole that I had chosen to get myself in. The moment I decided to take the higher road with these neighbors, is when I could literally feel my spirit lift to heights I hadn't been at in awhile. Like a spiritual bandaid. I knew that what I was doing was right. A member on On Wings of Faith (Melissa) told me that I could not choose how they responded, but that I would be blessed. All of the members on On Wings of Faith encouraged me to do this, and that God would make note of my efforts to make some peace.
So, I made some chocolate chip oatmeal cookies and also wrote a little note. In this note, I explained where we were coming from, where our frustrations stemmed from. I also apologized for a bit of an argument I got in with one of the neighbors. And I asked them if there was a better time for my children to have their louder playtime during the day. I have not yet heard back from them. But, it is much better than the almost daily hammering of our door for noises that are daily living noises. We'll see what comes of this. For now, however, my spirit has been renewed, a breath of fresh air has made life more sweet and less bitter.
26 September 2009
A Musical Savant Shows Talent
18 August 2009
Lost Five Days in a Mine
Meridian Magazine
Lost Five Days in a Mine
Josh turned to tag along behind the other scouts, who, not realizing he was planning to follow, had moved fast. They were already a long way ahead, threading their way deeper into the mine without him, their voices growing dimmer. Turning back, Josh saw that his father, who had taken the flashlight, was already out of sight with Danny. Josh focused his eyes on the scouts' flashlights ahead, and hurried to catch up. He thought if he moved quickly enough, he'd be with them soon. However, in an instant they turned a corner, and their light disappeared, leaving him utterly alone in the blackness.
He started back toward the entrance again, blindly groping his way down what he was sure was the tunnel. Without any light he was immediately disoriented. The farther he went, the more confused he became, and he stopped for a few minutes until it fully hit him. He was lost and he was worried, though not panicked. At that instant, he knew by instinct what to do. "Dear Heavenly Father," he prayed. "Please help me to be all right."
Josh continued feeling along the wall, yet he didn't seem to be coming any closer to the mine entrance. No distant light offered any hope. Several times he stumbled against broken planks, and he sloshed through unseen puddles that froze his feet in the chilly air. He covered a distance and still no hint of the mine entrance. Finally, he took a turn that lead him up a slope. How steep it was he couldn't tell, but at last he settled on a ledge to wait for help, certain now that he couldn't find his way out alone. Josh hunched down against the cold wall and prayed again, a little boy's whispered words in a silent cave, "Help me."
Telling Mom
Don't Give Up
The Search
Answered Prayers
17 August 2009
Is Your Hut Burning?
Early the next day, however, he was awakened by the sound of a ship that was approaching the island. It had come to rescue him. “How did you know I was here?” asked the weary man of his rescuers. “We saw your smoke signal, “ they replied.
It is easy to get discouraged when things are going bad. But we shouldn't lose heart, because God is at work in our lives, even in the midst of pain and suffering. Remember, next time your little hut is burning to the ground --- it just may be a smoke signal that summons the grace of God.
For all the negative things we have to say to ourselves.
God has a positive answer for it:
You say: “I'm too tired” God says: I will give you rest (Matthew 11:28-30)
You say: “Nobody really loves me” God says: I love you (John 3:16 & John 13:34)
You say: “I can't go on” God says: My grace is sufficient
(II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalms 91:15)
You say: “I can't figure things out” God says: I will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6)
You say: “I can't do it” God says: You can do all things (Philippians 4:13)
You say: “I'm not able” God says: I am able (II Corinthians 9:8)
You say: “It's not worth it” God says: It will be worth it (Roman 8:28)
You say: “I can't forgive myself” God says: I FORGIVE YOU
(I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)
You say: “I can't manage” God says: I will supply all your needs (Philippians 4:19)
You say: “I'm afraid” God says: I have not given you a spirit of fear (II Timothy 1:7)
You say: “I'm always worried & frustrated” God says: Cast all your cares on ME
(1 Peter 5:7)
You say: “I don't have enough faith” God says: I've given everyone a measure of faith (Romans 12:3)
You say: “I'm not smart enough” God says: I give you wisdom (I Corinthians 1:30)
You say: “I feel all alone” God says: I will never leave you or forsake you
(Hebrews 13:5)
21 July 2009
PUT YOUR TRUST IN GOD
It all works out. Don't worry.
I say that to myself every morning. It will work out.
Put your trust in God and move forward with faith and confidence in the future.
The Lord will not forsake us. He will not forsake us.
If we put our trust in Him, if we pray to Him,
if we live worthy of His blessings, He will hear our prayers.
By President Gordon B. Hinckley
From the funeral program for Marjorie Pay Hinckley, April 10 2004
14 July 2009
12 July 2009
Distractions
I have recently been struggling with a lot and all at once, which doesn't help the glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel. Her lesson, along with other moments that I know Heavenly Father had a hand in to help me move forward again has really got me pondering on a daily basis more-so than I already do.
For awhile, I have not felt like I could see that guiding light at the end of the tunnel. Only I realized that the light has always been there, I just wasn't doing ALL my part to see it. I have been distracted from these overwhelming feelings, frustration, sadness, depression even that I have failed to do ALL my part to be able to let God touch my life, for me to be able to see that light at the end of my tunnel. It never goes out, distractions just started to creep in to the point I just didn't know which way I was going.
What are some things that mean the most to you? Or who even means the most to you? Have you let these distractions take place of your duty, your loyalty, your moments to cherish, your moments for growth in your life? Do you have anger holding your anchor down? Let it go. Move forward. Distractions take away from what is SO important.
Prayer. This is another one that keeps popping up for me. And although we pray as a family every night, and I try and be diligent to do my own personal prayers each night - I do lack at times and I know when I need to be doing better. Having that conversation with Heavenly Father every night goes a long way. The light is strong at the end of the tunnel when I am, the way is made clear, and my heart isn't feeling as troubled. I always keep a prayer in my heart, which helps me so much, but I need more personal one-on-one focused conversation time with Heavenly Father. What a difference that would make. What an opportunity for growth.
You know, I often think about all the resources that have been given to us - spiritual resources - that we often times fail to accomplish. These resources are always there, they are easy to do, they give great opportunities in so many areas of life. Why the procrastination on doing some of it - natural, as we are not perfect of course, but wow - the antidote is always in front of us for happiness, for letting grudges or anger go, for a wholesome, good life --- it is so easy, yet sometimes so hard. Life is hard, I won't deny it - I have had my many days throughout that have been hell and back - but life is worth living, life is worth growing and in God's infinite wisdom He gives us these trials to give us the choice to choose to grow from. God is good in all that He does for me, for everyone.
Every day now, I always think of the lesson in Relief Society about what my distractions would be in my life, what do I need to do to get rid of them and focus on what will not only help my growth in my life, but for my children, for my husband, family, and friends. What is it that I can I let go of today that is stopping me from being my best? What do I need to do to improve spiritually, so I can also improve emotionally, and then physically? What is it? I think as long as I am aware, and doing my best, everything will turn out for the best in the end. To me, the journey is worth it when I am always aware of what I need to work on, so that it not only helps me to grow, but so I can in turn help my children grow and nurture our marriage.
17 May 2009
Quotes from Facing the Giant
"Coach: I prayed so hard, but I still can’t seem to win.
Mr. Bridges: I heard of a story of two farmers praying to God for rain to come. Both prayed but only one prepared the land. Who do you think trusted God more to send the rain?"
This so relates to me in so many ways right now. I have the know-how to have God send me the rain, I just haven't done my part, I have not prepared my fields the proper way. And so, I am dedicating myself to do just that - I need God to send me rain and I certainly cannot expect him to do it when I'm almost doing my part, it just means that He can only "almost" send me blessings. What a great eye opener!
"Never give up. Never back down. Never lose faith."
Grant Taylor: I want God to bless this team so much people will talk about what He did. But it means we gotta give Him our best in every area. And if we win, we praise Him. And if we lose, we praise Him. Either way we honor Him with our actions and our attitudes. So I'm askin' you... What are you living for? I resolve to give God everything I've got, then I'll leave the results up to Him. I want to know if you'll join me.
Grant Taylor: With God, nothing is impossible.
--Facing the Giants
Think about, REALLY THINK ABOUT what this means. What does this mean to you? I think it is natural for us to lean towards the world, towards man to increase our capacity in all our areas of life - when God has placed before us numerous resources to get through everything and anything we may be going through. It should be natural for us to lean towards God, lean towards Jesus and His teachings. This is the good news.
I often think about something one of our former home teachers expressed one night. The scriptures talk much about faith, and many people from the scriptures had a pure faith that literally made the scripture For with God nothing shall be impossible come to pass. Where is our faith? What do we need to do to work on our faith and make that scripture come to pass in our own lives. What do we need to do to strengthen our testimony?
One of my favorite books is Believing Christ by Stephen E. Robinson. Many of us believe IN Christ, but do you BELIEVE CHRIST? Do you believe his teachings and the powerful affect that it can have upon your life?
12 May 2009
Doing Our Part
Which reminds me of something someone commented on in Sunday School this past Sunday. I liked what he said. He said that if we do our part, we will be blessed. This is God's promise to us, if we do our part, we will be blessed. He was specifically talking about tithing this time, but it really goes for anything --- if we "almost" pay our tithing, we "almost" get blessed. If we almost do our part, we almost get blessed. Those blessings are ours, and God is so ready to give them to us, but we must do our part! Another comment from a mother said that her 7 yr old asked one day about what they'd do as a family if they became poor. Her mother's reply was that she wasn't worried about that, because as long as they were paying their tithing the Lord would bless them, they would get through just fine. What is interesting is that she wanted to pay more in her weekly tithing than is required of us, her thinking in this is that if she did more than her part, she would be doubly blessed. What a great lesson to us from a child! I think often times we become the student and our children become the teacher. They have some amazing thoughts to share with us, such strength in their testimonies that are starting to grow.
09 May 2009
Facing the Giants
Wow! We just watched an incredibly moving movie - Facing the Giants. What an amazing film! It was very touching, and this movie couldn't have come at a more perfect time in our life as well! It just emphasizes my absolute favorite scripture, that I need to work on using more in my own life -- For with God nothing shall be impossible. - Luke 1:37
23 April 2009
He Loves Us
I am not perfect. I have weaknesses. I try and make my weaknesses become strong. I have made mistakes, some the same more than once. And it has been at those times that I have felt [even though, I know that my Heavenly Father has forgiven me], that perhaps my quota has been up on saying "I'm sorry." I know that the atonement doesn't work that way. I know that I am harder on myself than others are, and sometimes it is harder to forgive yourself than it is for our Father in Heaven to forgive us of our shortcomings.
I also think about the comparison of as a parent we know what is best for our children, and sometimes our children don't understand why they need to go to bed at a certain hour. They may resist, they may do everything they can under the sun to delay because for them, they are just not ready to go to sleep. As a parent, we love our children and we know they need sleep to be at their best emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Sometimes, our children don't know understand why we do what we do, but it is for the good. God or Heavenly Father does the same for us, His children ~ sometimes we may not understand the trials we face, but we do because He knows us better and He loves us and He knows what we need to become our best.
This quote came to me from LDS Nuggets.com today ~ to me, it relates to the above thoughts.
"Oh, it is wonderful to know that our Heavenly Father loves us—even with all our flaws! His love is such that even should we give up on ourselves, He never will. We see ourselves in terms of yesterday and today. Our Heavenly Father sees us in terms of forever. Although we might settle for less, Heavenly Father won’t, for He sees us as the glorious beings we are capable of becoming."
| --Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, "The Great Commandment", October 2007 General Conference |
| 1 John 4:7–8 | God is Love, Hymn #87 |
21 April 2009
Random Thought by Me
--- for some time, I have always said that there is just never enough time in the day. But a thought struck me. God gave us the days that we have, and they are as long as they should be. If they were longer, perhaps we wouldn't learn about where our priorities need to be and cherish the wonderful moments that we do have in our lives. Moments of which sometimes get unnoticed, or just pass by without much thought to them. I think the time in our day is God's gift to us. So we should use it or learn to use it wisely, productively, give our all to our spouses, to our kids, to our families to our friends etc. I think God gave us the opportunity (hence the reason why kids grow up too fast) to use our time wisely and to embrace our children.
















