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28 December 2009
Tithing—a Commandment Even for the Destitute
--Lynn G. Robbins, “Tithing—a Commandment Even for the Destitute,” Ensign, May 2005, 34
21 December 2009
What Is Christmas?
--Thomas S. Monson, “What Is Christmas?” Ensign, Dec. 1998, 2
20 December 2009
Follow the Path of Joy by H. Wallance Goddard
LDS Social Services Seminar, 24 April 1993, Atlanta
"I had gone to scout camp every summer for several years. But one year was different from others. On the first day of camp a distinct impression came to me: "Your little sister has been bitten by a rattlesnake." Rattlesnakes were not uncommon around our mountain home and Lorene played outside often. I fretted: "Shall I ask my scoutmaster to hike out of our mountain retreat and rive me home? What can I do for Lorene? Will she die?" I was miserable. The camp lasted 5 days. Ever day I worried. Every day I wondered if I should ask to be taken home. It seemed like an eternity... but finally the week ended. As we drove up to the house my heart was pounding... There was Lorene in the front yard riding her trike. No one had seen a snake all week.
What had happened? Why had I been so sure and so wrong? The answer is simple (though I didn't think of it for 20 years): the devil. Misery is his specialty. And lies are his tools. He especially loves "low-grade" misery such as I experienced at scout camp: I had no peace as I worried and fretted all week but I was not so miserable that I got help such as wise counsel from a scoutmaster. I was trapped in my misery.
I witnessed an example of low-grade misery in a recent temple recommend interview. The good brother who had come to me for a recommend confessed that he did not feel worthy of a recommend. I asked him the reasons. Well, he still feels tempted and just doesn't feel that he is doing everything he can. Any sins or misdeeds? No. Just don't feel worthy. Reading the scriptures, attending meetings, wanting to be acceptable to God? Yes. And he began to weep. We talked about the voice of God. If there are things amiss in his life God will be glad to direct him in helpful, specific ways. He will invite him to repent and have joy. But God does not nag, chide, badger, bedevil, heckle, henpeck, plague, or scold. He invites, entices, encourages, teaches, guides, and loves. His feeling of unworthiness was probably a message from the devil, not Father. Father will give him support and guidance in repentance. Satan sends discouragement. Messages from Satan do no deserve our attention.
Sometimes we assume that the devil's objective is to get us to sin. But The Book of Mormon tells us that his objective is to make us miserable. Getting us to sin is one way he can accomplish that living, no hope in Christ, no faith in redemption, no love for others. In fact, it must be fiendishly delightful to him when he can get us working hard to be good while feeling miserable that we are not better. We don't have to sin to be miserable. We only have to believe Satan's lies.
Anytime the message we feel is disabling guilt, we may know that the message is not coming from Father. Even the godly sorrow associated with sin has a sweetness that accompanies broken-heartedness. We feel miserable that we would offend our dearest friend; but we feel the warmth of His infinite love. We feel hope. We feel in invitation to be clean. We feel welcomed. Even after committing sin, God greets the penitent as He did the prodigal son, with open arms and the royal robe.
The devil deals in all forms of misery including anxiety, guilt, doubt, hate and fear. A good friend was visiting in our home, expressing her feelings and asking for advice. "I'm so concerned. I have a nagging worry that our little boy is going to fall in the canal and drown. I worry about it all the time... We need to move to another neighborhood."
"By their fruits ye shall know them." The friend's anxiety is a good example of that nagging, disabling feeling that comes from Satan. It is possible that the family should move to get away from the canal. But instruction from God will come with sweetness and guidance. If her son fall sin the canal, she may receive specific instruction to take specific action. But God does not nag. Anxiety is disabling. It is not from God. When the devil can get us feeling both disturbed and helpless at the same time, he is fiendishly pleased.
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith," (Galatians 5:22)
The devil uses not only emotions that are clearly negative, such as anxiety, but also emotions that we may mistake as useful, necessary, or from God. Built provides a good case in point. Guilt comes from the devil. Godly sorrow comes from Father. They may seem very similar. But the difference between them is the difference between their sources. The devil wants us to be discouraged, to give up, to hate ourselves, even to be absorbed in our badness. The Lord wants us to recognize that we are unable to be saved and cleansed without His help. As Moses said: "I am nothing, which thing I had never known." Mosiah talks of our nothingness, worthless and fallen state. But the Lord would have us use this awareness to realize our dependence upon God, to call upon His power, and to come to "the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ." He is fully able to cleanse, strengthen, purify, and perfect us. If the feeling we have about our sins causes us to give up, it is from Satan. If the feeling causes us to call upon Father in earnest humility, it is from God.
Doubt is another of the devil's tools. Nathaniel Hawthorne said of one of his friends: "He can neither believe, nor be comfortable in his unbelief." Just as the devil would have it. Neither enjoying the joy that the Lord offers nor feeling good about rejecting it. "Damned if the does and damned if he doesn't."
Think about times that you have felt doubt. Maybe you have read an anti-Mormon diatribes and wondered, "Are we mistaken? Are our beliefs as foolish as they make them seem?" I think the important questions is: If we were mistaken, would God ridicule us? No. God would lead us to greater truth. Doubt is not one of his derision and scorn. Doubt is a clear sign of his work. The devil would have us jettison the many witnesses and abundant joy we have experienced just because someone can parody our belief. He knows that double is easier than faith. He doesn't have anything better to offer. He only gives gnawing, miserable skepticism. But Father's messages of joy should be our guide. He testifies of abundant truth.
Satan also loves anger. He wants us to believe that our feelings of anger are justified. "I was angry because of what my neighbor did. After all, he needed to know that what he did was wrong. So I got angry and told him off." The implications is tat the neighbor will be better off for our anger, and that we are justified (even righteous) if we call them to repentance.
When the Lord said "Judgment is mine," I think He was saing that only one who knows everything and loves perfectly can be trust with judgment. Mortals ought to be very content to work with mercy. Many eyars ago it became clear to me that I do not have the right to try to correct anyone I do not love. If I am feeling indignant, angry, or antagonistic, I am unable to help.
Anger comes from the devil. We should ask the Lord for charity to replace judgment, anger, meanness and hate with loving, forgiving, understanding, and helping.
One of the most poignant examples of the principle of joy came in an experience with a beloved friend who shared with me his difficutly in making a career decision. He worried that he was not in tune with the spirit. He felt that the Lord would not guide him because he had disappointed the Lord many times over the previous 20 years. As he tried to make this major decision he doubted his own ability to get inspiration. He feared that he would make a bad decision and ruin his family and professional life. He asked my advice. Two suggestions came to mind:
1, CAST OUT ALL EVIL. Recognize that uncertainty, misery, and doubt (especially self-doubt) are from the devil. Cast them out.
2. FOLLOW THE PATH OF JOY. Take time for peaceful meditation. Consider the career options. Then, without defenses, excuses and worries, sense which course brings the greater joy. Don't let your worries block what your should can say to you. Your soul knows what is right for you.
The Lord said: "Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and yea shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." (Matt. 11:28-30)
The Lord's use of a yoke must have been a very fitting metaphor for a chosen people that were chafing in submission to a gentile nation. The Lord does not promise that there will be no labor in pulling the load. But if I were called upon to pull a lad and if I were yoked side by side with my beloved Savior, no lad would be too great. I would be pleased to be yoked with Him.
Moroni says "All things which are good cometh of Christ." (Moroni 7:24) All things. If it is not good (purposeful, useful, joyous), it is not from Him.
The name "Satan" means "accuser" (Strong's Exhaustive Concordance of the Bible). He has been called the accuser, slanderer, spoiler, and enemy. [See Bible Dictionary "Devil"]
The Savior poignantly describes His relationship with us in Doctrine and Covenants 45:3-5. It is very different from that of the "Accuser." Picture the scene He describes as He escorts us to the judgment bar.
Listen to him who is the advocate with the Father, who is pleading your cause before him--
Saying: Father, behold the sufferings and death of him who did not sin, in whom thou wast well pleased; behold the blood of the Son which was shed, the blood of him whom thou gavest that thyself might be gloried;
Wherefore, Father, spare these my brethren that believe on my name, that they may come unto me and have everlasting life.
Jesus brings us to the judgment bar to plead our case, offering his suffering in paying for our sins. It is a sad perverion of His love that we often think of Jesus as an accuser rather than our advocate! He is the Prince of Peace. Not contention. He sends peace within people so that there may be peace between people. He is in the business of Joy.
George Q. Cannon has said:
Whenever darkness fills our minds, we may know that we are not possessed of the Spirit of God, and we must get rid of it. When we are filled with the Spirit of God we are filled with joy, with peace and with happiness no matter what our circumstances may be; for it is a spirit of cheerfulness and of happiness... Gospel Truth, p.17
May the Lord bless us to recognize His loving voice. And to follow it on the Path to Eternal Joy."
14 December 2009
In Search of the Christmas Spirit
--Thomas S. Monson, “In Search of the Christmas Spirit,” Ensign, Dec. 1987, 3 (emphasis added)
07 December 2009
Oh, Come, All Ye Faithful: An Advent Calendar
"Christmas means ‘compassion and love’ and, most of all ‘forgiveness’ … How poor indeed would be our lives without the influence of His teachings and His matchless example. …
"He whose birth we commemorate this season is more than the symbol of a holiday. He is the Son of God, … the Redeemer of mankind, the King of Kings, the Prince of Peace."
-Gordon B. Hinckley, as quoted in "Oh, Come, All Ye Faithful: An Advent Calendar," New Era, Dec. 1998, 21
30 November 2009
The Atonement and the Value of One Soul
--Elder M. Russell Ballard, "The Atonement and the Value of One Soul", May 2004 Ensign pg 84
23 November 2009
The Lifeline of Prayer
--James E. Faust, “The Lifeline of Prayer,” Ensign, May 2002, 59
16 November 2009
Give Thanks in All Things
--Dallin H. Oaks, "Give Thanks in All Things," Ensign, May 2003, 95
11 November 2009
Peace Offering --- Accepted
It's been three days after my peace offering to our neighbors, and today I got a knock on our door. It was the neighbor who I quarreled with, she had a plate of rice krispie treats, and this is what she said to me "This is my peace offering with you. We won't knock on your door anymore, we understand, as we also have kids. And we'll take care of the bikes. We want to not have contention between us either. We understand."
I can honestly say I was surprised. But through this experience, I have gained a testimony that when we follow in the footsteps of the teachings Jesus, the outcome in some way will be a good one. The response from our neighbor shows that she was touched by my act of kindness to her. She didn't have to make a plate of rice krispie treats, and take the courage to knock on our door, apologize and hand them to me, but she did. The outcome could have been good in so many different ways, the very fact that I had a spiritual renewal was a blessing. I always think about how we might plant seeds in people's lives. You can't choose the outcome, but you can plant the seed and they can choose to make that seed blossom now or in the future. The important part, is that you took the step, you took the higher road, you planted the seed. God is watching over us, and I know that He is pleased with us when we make good choices. It truly is simple, sometimes it feels hard, but it is simple. I am grateful for this experience, and I am grateful for the opportunity of planting a seed that blossomed. I would encourage you, if you're frustrated with someone, or something – take the higher road and you will be blessed for your efforts.
09 November 2009
Taking the Higher Road
My frustrations levels went through the roof, and it was affecting how I felt, my overall feeling about how life currently felt, how I was as a wife and a mother, and probably a friend too.
Over a period of time, I started to be more aware of God reaching out to me during this frustration, and trying to help me take the "higher road." I will be perfectly honest in saying that I was feeling like I was not about to take the higher road because I was angry with them, because I was sick and tired of what we were dealing with on a daily basis, because I just didn't at the time feel it was in me to do it, I just didn't want to.
But, I noticed that my patience levels on a daily basis was dwindling into nothing. I noticed that I felt like a dark cloud every day followed me where ever I went. I was starting to more and more look at the negative vs. the many positive things in my life. I was being dragged down into a hole that I knew if I didn't do something about it soon, I would maybe be hiding in there for some time.
One of my favorite quotes, and I'm not sure who it is by is that when we listen and then follow God, we will always be right. How comforting that is to me. We can't go wrong.
I talked to my friend on my On Wings of Faith group and they encouraged me to take this step. I was totally feeling out of my comfort zone, but I don't think it really was out of my comfort zone, but that Satan simply did not want me to climb into the hole that I had chosen to get myself in. The moment I decided to take the higher road with these neighbors, is when I could literally feel my spirit lift to heights I hadn't been at in awhile. Like a spiritual bandaid. I knew that what I was doing was right. A member on On Wings of Faith (Melissa) told me that I could not choose how they responded, but that I would be blessed. All of the members on On Wings of Faith encouraged me to do this, and that God would make note of my efforts to make some peace.
So, I made some chocolate chip oatmeal cookies and also wrote a little note. In this note, I explained where we were coming from, where our frustrations stemmed from. I also apologized for a bit of an argument I got in with one of the neighbors. And I asked them if there was a better time for my children to have their louder playtime during the day. I have not yet heard back from them. But, it is much better than the almost daily hammering of our door for noises that are daily living noises. We'll see what comes of this. For now, however, my spirit has been renewed, a breath of fresh air has made life more sweet and less bitter.
For the Beauty of the Earth - TOTW
Hymns, For the Beauty of the Earth, no. 92
1. For the beauty of the earth,
For the beauty of the skies,
For the love which from our birth
Over and around us lies,
[Chorus]
Lord of all, to thee we raise
This our hymn of grateful praise.
2. For the beauty of each hour
Of the day and of the night,
Hill and vale, and tree and flow’r,
Sun and moon, and stars of light,
3. For the joy of human love,
Brother, sister, parent, child,
Friends on earth, and friends above,
For all gentle thoughts and mild,
Text: Folliott S. Pierpoint, 1835-1917
Music: Conrad Kocher, 1786–1872
Psalm 95:1–6
Psalm 33:1–6
02 November 2009
The Profound Power of Gratitude - TOTW
--Thomas S. Monson, “The Profound Power of Gratitude,” Ensign, Sept. 2005, 3
26 October 2009
Who’s Losing? - TOTW
Seconds after he made his way to a distant seat, Sister Ashton said, 'He doesn’t know you very well, does he?' 'What makes you say that?' I replied. She responded with, 'If he did, he would know you don’t believe anyone is losing. Some are ahead and some are behind, but no one is losing. Isn’t that right?' I smiled in approval with a warm feeling inside.
Proper attitude in this crisis-dominated world is a priceless possession. Never before is it more important for all of us to move forward with conviction. We may be behind, but we are not losing if we are moving in the right direction. God will not score our performances until the end of the journey."
--Elder Marvin J Ashton, "Who’s Losing?" Ensign, Nov. 1974, 41
22 October 2009
Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: We Have the Answers to the Hard Questions
"Recently, as I sat in Barnes & Noble at a book signing, looking at all the books around me, I was suddenly struck by the fact that in one way or another they all dealt with life’s great questions. Why injustice? Who are we really? Where are the answers? Why do I feel so empty? Is there absolute truth out there somewhere, or is everything relative?"
Meridian Magazine:: Line Upon Line: We Have the Answers to the Hard Questions
19 October 2009
Strengthening Each Other - TOTW
'It is important to know, when you feel down, that many others do also and that their circumstances are generally much worse than yours. And it’s important to know that when one of us is down, it becomes the obligation of his friends to give him a lift. I hope that each of us will cultivate a sensitivity toward the feelings of others, and when encouragement is needed, make an effort to extend it. Be a friend, and you will have a friend. God be thanked for wonderful friends.'
--Gordon B. Hinckley, “Strengthening Each Other,” Ensign, Feb. 1985, 3
15 October 2009
Meridian Magazine :: You Tube: An Apostle?s Testimony of the Book of Mormon
Meridian Magazine :: You Tube: An Apostle?s Testimony of the Book of Mormon
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12 October 2009
Meridian Magazine :: Family Connections: At Risk: Our Children?s Imagination
And then on the other hand, our oldest has a fabulous imagination - our bed can turn into a train, a boat with crashing waves and sharks beneath, an airplane soaring through the clouds... It is so much fun!
And not only does it create fun in a child's life, but what about the importance of their brain development and how it helps them with life's challenges in general? :)
Meridian Magazine :: Family Connections: At Risk: Our Children?s Imagination
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Three Choices - TOTW
Those who stand at the threshold of life always waiting for the right time to change are like the man who stands at the bank of a river waiting for the water to pass so he can cross on dry land.
Today is the day of decision."
--Joseph B. Wirthlin, “Three Choices,” Ensign, Nov. 2003, 78
11 October 2009
Testimony Builder - Thoughts By Me.
Let me step back a few years. When my oldest was under one, I would take him to church by myself, as at the time my husband was not active in church. During the course of the 3 hour block, I became discouraged because I wasn't getting the spiritual uplift that I wanted and needed. I was spending much of the time in the hallway, because my baby was being too noisy to be able to sit through some of the meetings. At that very moment that I became discouraged and thought to myself what is the point of me being here, the Primary President came around the corner and said to me, "I remember those days, it will get better." At that moment in time, it occurred to me that I am not the only one that has had to go in the hallway, that there will be better days, and it is important for me to be there even in the hallway for a short time period in my babies life. Why? Because it shows him that going to church is an important part of our lives, and eventually when he is older, the habit will be instilled in him, and again, when he grows older he'll start to realize the weekly spiritual nourishment that he can get at church. What a great insight that was for me. It was not coincidence that the Primary President came around the corner at that exact moment, and that what she said to me gave me a better testimony of why it is so important that I come to church with my little one even if it is in the hallway for a brief time in life.
Now, my oldest is in Primary and is loving it. I can see the spiritual growth he has gained by my persistence and faith in bringing him to church each Sunday. It is wonderful to hear him so excited to learn about our Savior. To learn about eternal families, as sometime in the future our family will be sealed for time and all eternity, what a great testimony builder this will be for him, and for our little family as a whole. It is exciting to see him be excited to say the family prayer at night, or during dinner time. It is heart warming to hear him speak with his little voice that permeates a spiritual warmth throughout my heart.
And, I am back to the hallway days off and on with our youngest. He will be able to go to the nursery in about 6 months, which will in turn help for me be able to focus on my weekly spiritual uplift. But again, for now, it is important to teach him that going to church weekly is important to us individually and as a family.
I am so grateful for the opportunity to teach our little ones the importance of living the gospel in their daily lives. I am grateful for the small teachings I receive through my children, for their little insights that give me strength to push forward. This life is truly an amazing journey, difficult at times sure, perhaps difficult is an understatement at times, but nevertheless, it is a blessing. I truly am grateful for the opportunities for spiritual insight and spiritual growth.
07 October 2009
Meridian Magazine : : Church Update: Sunday Morning 179th Semiannual Conference
Meridian Magazine : : Church Update: Sunday Morning 179th Semiannual Conference
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05 October 2009
TOTW - Don’t be discouraged...
--David B. Haight (Ensign, November 1977)
Meridian Magazine : : Church Update: Saturday Morning Session 179th Semiannual General Conference
Meridian Magazine : : Church Update: Saturday Morning Session 179th Semiannual General Conference
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28 September 2009
A Mighty Change of Heart - TOTW
The scriptures record remarkable accounts of men whose lives changed dramatically, in an instant...
But we must be cautious as we discuss these remarkable examples. Though they are real and powerful, they are the exception more than the rule. For every Paul, for every Enos, and for every King Lamoni, there are hundreds and thousands of people who find the process of repentance much more subtle, much more imperceptible. Day by day they move closer to the Lord, little realizing they are building a godlike life. They live quiet lives of goodness, service, and commitment. They are like the Lamanites, who the Lord said "were baptized with fire and with the Holy Ghost, and they knew it not." (3 Ne. 9:20)."
-- Ezra Taft Benson, “A Mighty Change of Heart,” Ensign, Oct. 1989, 2
26 September 2009
A Musical Savant Shows Talent
24 September 2009
Harold B. Lee's Quote on America
23 September 2009
September 09' Visiting Teaching Message
"The reason we pray, study the scriptures, have good friends, and live the gospel through obedience to the commandments is so that when - not if, but when --the trials come, we are ready." --Elder Robert D. HalesWe have been given some simple measures from the example of Jesus, and commandments from God that if we do these simple measures in our lives on a regular basis it will go a long way in our trialing times - and in turn our joyous times are even more joyous.. If we have not done these simple things on a regular basis, then our trialing times simply are harder to get through. The weight of our trials seem too hard to bare.
I know in my own life that when I have not been consistent with my personal prayer, scripture study, and other aspects that make life run more smoothly that life tends to be more bumpy.
If you know me, you will know that I have been through a lot of trials in my life, some that were through mistakes I have made or trials that simply were placed in my life - any way the trials came into your life gives the opportunity for growth. I know that when we choose to lean on God, doing our part, we will get through even a little bit easier, have more sense of peace, comfort, and in the end more joy.
Recently, I friend shared this with me during some difficult times in my life:
Remember that the fiery darts that Satan throws at us puts holes in our buckets, which makes us have to work to keep them filled. It is almost impossible for us to keep our buckets full all by ourselves, that is why Heavenly Father provides friends and loved ones to help in that bucket filling chore. As one fills another bucket, your bucket is filled in return.
Also remember, that the most important is no matter how hard life seems at times, remember that God will never give us anything that we can't handle. Never, never give up and don't let Satan win the battle he is waging against you. Know that endurance is the key to salvation. And that which does not kill us, only makes us stronger. Like the story of the man that was commanded by the Lord to push against a rock, and the man obeyed and pushed, and pushed, but he never moved the rock one inch. He became discouraged, and when the Lord came bac, he told the Lord, I pushed against the rock, but I failed because I was not able to move it. Then the Lord said, I only asked you to push against the rock, not to move it, and by pushing against the rock it has made you strong. So, God is there to comfort us when we think we have failed, but in reality we have succeeded! So, remember, keep pushing against every rock and you will become stronger by every passing day!
I have found in my own life that if the load of my trials are feeling so heavy that I am feeling unable to bare them, I ask myself "Am I doing my part?" If I am not, which we all have our moments that we fall back, then the good news is, is that we can move forward again. He is waiting for each and every one of us. He knows each of us. He loves each of us. And He knows what is best for us. It truly is in God's infinite wisdom that he places us with trials - it is out of love that he does this, to again, give us the opportunity to grow. We can choose that - that is our free agency to choose the better road. I do have a strong testimony of this, and while I am not perfect, and I continue to fall over and over again as others do - I learn, I grow spiritually, mentally, and physically. I am so grateful for these opportunities.
22 September 2009
Random Thoughts by Me.
I know that for me, over the many years of being more aware of myself and my surroundings, has in turn helped me to be strengthened spiritually, mentally, and physically. I know that being aware strengthens the relationships I have with those around me.
21 September 2009
That My Family Should Partake - TOTW
--Neal A. Maxwell (That My Family Should Partake [1974], 122)
15 September 2009
TOTW
--Barbara B. Smith (Ensign, March 1976)
07 September 2009
A Mighty Change of Heart - TOTW
-Ezra Taft Benson, “A Mighty Change of Heart,” Ensign, Oct. 1989, 2
I so needed this thought today - which came into my Inbox for our own TOTW from On Wings of Faith. Different trials come to us in all shapes and sizes, sometimes easier than others, some really hard to even drag your feet through the mud of it all. I have been through several trials, and in the midst of a few myself right now that have been very trying. But it is so true that we must not lose hope. There are many blessings for each of us as we strive to improve ourselves for the better - spiritually, mentally, and physically. The strength the comes through our trials is an amazing blessing in itself.
31 August 2009
The Power of Speech - TOTW
"Like all gifts 'which cometh from above,' words are 'sacred, and must be spoken with care, and by constraint of the Spirit' (D&C 63:64). "It is with this realization of the power and sanctity of words that I wish to caution us, if caution is needed, regarding how we speak to each other and how we speak of ourselves. "There is a line from the Apocrypha which puts the seriousness of this issue better than I can. It reads, 'The stroke of the whip maketh marks in the flesh: but the stroke of the tongue breaketh the bones' (Ecclesiasticus 28:17)." (Jeffrey R. Holland, "The Tongue of Angels," Ensign, May 2007, 16) |
24 August 2009
TOTW - Hear the Voice of the Savior through the Scriptures
"I find that if I pray not only to have a witness of the truthfulness of the scriptures but also to have the Spirit with me as I read, my sensitivity is heightened, and I see ever so much more clearly. I can see where I am in my life and where my Heavenly Father wants me to be. I can understand principles of truth, and I can see how to make the needed changes in my life. I can feel assured that the Lord will help and strengthen me to accomplish the task. Thus the scriptures become written in my life. "When we read the scriptures we are hearing the voice of the Savior. He is not absent from our lives. He is actively positioned in the verses of these holy books." (Cheryl C. Lant, "My Soul Delighteth in the Scriptures," Ensign, Nov. 2005, 77) |
18 August 2009
Lost Five Days in a Mine
Meridian Magazine
Lost Five Days in a Mine
Josh turned to tag along behind the other scouts, who, not realizing he was planning to follow, had moved fast. They were already a long way ahead, threading their way deeper into the mine without him, their voices growing dimmer. Turning back, Josh saw that his father, who had taken the flashlight, was already out of sight with Danny. Josh focused his eyes on the scouts' flashlights ahead, and hurried to catch up. He thought if he moved quickly enough, he'd be with them soon. However, in an instant they turned a corner, and their light disappeared, leaving him utterly alone in the blackness.
He started back toward the entrance again, blindly groping his way down what he was sure was the tunnel. Without any light he was immediately disoriented. The farther he went, the more confused he became, and he stopped for a few minutes until it fully hit him. He was lost and he was worried, though not panicked. At that instant, he knew by instinct what to do. "Dear Heavenly Father," he prayed. "Please help me to be all right."
Josh continued feeling along the wall, yet he didn't seem to be coming any closer to the mine entrance. No distant light offered any hope. Several times he stumbled against broken planks, and he sloshed through unseen puddles that froze his feet in the chilly air. He covered a distance and still no hint of the mine entrance. Finally, he took a turn that lead him up a slope. How steep it was he couldn't tell, but at last he settled on a ledge to wait for help, certain now that he couldn't find his way out alone. Josh hunched down against the cold wall and prayed again, a little boy's whispered words in a silent cave, "Help me."
Telling Mom
Don't Give Up
The Search
Answered Prayers
17 August 2009
Is Your Hut Burning?
Early the next day, however, he was awakened by the sound of a ship that was approaching the island. It had come to rescue him. “How did you know I was here?” asked the weary man of his rescuers. “We saw your smoke signal, “ they replied.
It is easy to get discouraged when things are going bad. But we shouldn't lose heart, because God is at work in our lives, even in the midst of pain and suffering. Remember, next time your little hut is burning to the ground --- it just may be a smoke signal that summons the grace of God.
For all the negative things we have to say to ourselves.
God has a positive answer for it:
You say: “I'm too tired” God says: I will give you rest (Matthew 11:28-30)
You say: “Nobody really loves me” God says: I love you (John 3:16 & John 13:34)
You say: “I can't go on” God says: My grace is sufficient
(II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalms 91:15)
You say: “I can't figure things out” God says: I will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6)
You say: “I can't do it” God says: You can do all things (Philippians 4:13)
You say: “I'm not able” God says: I am able (II Corinthians 9:8)
You say: “It's not worth it” God says: It will be worth it (Roman 8:28)
You say: “I can't forgive myself” God says: I FORGIVE YOU
(I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)
You say: “I can't manage” God says: I will supply all your needs (Philippians 4:19)
You say: “I'm afraid” God says: I have not given you a spirit of fear (II Timothy 1:7)
You say: “I'm always worried & frustrated” God says: Cast all your cares on ME
(1 Peter 5:7)
You say: “I don't have enough faith” God says: I've given everyone a measure of faith (Romans 12:3)
You say: “I'm not smart enough” God says: I give you wisdom (I Corinthians 1:30)
You say: “I feel all alone” God says: I will never leave you or forsake you
(Hebrews 13:5)
TOTW - Commitment to the Lord
"The sincere commitments you make to yourself and to the Lord will be vital. We learn from the book of Psalms to 'commit thy way unto the Lord; . . . and he shall bring it to pass' (Psalm 37:5)."
(John B. Dickson, "Commitment to the Lord," Ensign, May 2007, 14)
10 August 2009
TOTW - The Nourishing Power of Hymns
conversion.
"Hymns are 'an essential part of our church meetings. [They] invite the Spirit of the Lord' (Hymns, ix). They often do this quicker than anything else we may do. President J. Reuben Clark Jr. said, 'We get nearer to the Lord through music than perhaps through any other thing except prayer'."
(Jay E. Jensen, "The Nourishing Power of Hymns," Ensign, May 2007, 11)
02 August 2009
TOTW - Sunday Will Come
"Had they chosen, they could have disappeared and returned to their former lives and occupations. In time, their association with Him would have been forgotten.
"They could have denied the divinity of Christ. Yet they did not. In the face of danger, ridicule, and threat of death, they entered palaces, temples, and synagogues boldly proclaiming Jesus the Christ, the resurrected Son of the living God.
"Many of them offered as a final testimony their own precious lives. They died as martyrs, the testimony of the risen Christ on their lips as they perished.
"The Resurrection transformed the lives of those who witnessed it.
Should it not transform ours? We will all rise from the grave. . .
"Because of the life and eternal sacrifice of the Savior of the
world, we will be reunited with those we have cherished.
"On that day we will know the love of our Heavenly Father. On that day we will rejoice that the Messiah overcame all that we could live forever."
(Joseph B. Wirthlin, "Sunday Will Come," Ensign, Nov. 2006, 30)
27 July 2009
TOTW - We Are Responsible...
23 July 2009
Building Character and Increasing Compassion
Building Character and Increasing Compassion
"Learning to endure times of disappointment, suffering, and sorrow is part of our on-the-job training. These experiences, while often difficult to bear at the time, are precisely the kinds of experiences that stretch our understanding, build our character, and increase our compassion for others."
Joseph B. Wirthlin, "Come What May, and Love It", Ensign, Nov. 2008, 27
My response? I think I need to read this over and over again every day - when reading it, it uplifts me - at the same time, I choose to laugh instead of cry because I feel like crying sometimes with all that is going on. Although, if I laugh too much, people may think I need to be sent to the lunatic farm.
21 July 2009
PUT YOUR TRUST IN GOD
It all works out. Don't worry.
I say that to myself every morning. It will work out.
Put your trust in God and move forward with faith and confidence in the future.
The Lord will not forsake us. He will not forsake us.
If we put our trust in Him, if we pray to Him,
if we live worthy of His blessings, He will hear our prayers.
By President Gordon B. Hinckley
From the funeral program for Marjorie Pay Hinckley, April 10 2004
20 July 2009
The Price of Discipleship
"Many think that the price of discipleship is too costly and too burdensome. For some, it involves giving up too much. But the cross is not as heavy as it appears to be. Through obedience we acquire much greater strength to carry it."
(James E. Faust, "Discipleship," Ensign, Nov. 2006, 22)
14 July 2009
TOTW - Our Priceless Heritage
"The Declaration of Independence was to set forth the moral
justification of a rebellion against a long-recognized political
tradition--the divine right of kings. At issue was the fundamental question of whether men's rights were God-given or whether these rights were to be dispensed by governments to their subjects.
This document proclaimed that all men have certain inalienable rights. In other words, these rights came from God."
(Ezra Taft Benson, "Our Priceless Heritage," Ensign, Nov. 1976, 33)
12 July 2009
Distractions
I have recently been struggling with a lot and all at once, which doesn't help the glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel. Her lesson, along with other moments that I know Heavenly Father had a hand in to help me move forward again has really got me pondering on a daily basis more-so than I already do.
For awhile, I have not felt like I could see that guiding light at the end of the tunnel. Only I realized that the light has always been there, I just wasn't doing ALL my part to see it. I have been distracted from these overwhelming feelings, frustration, sadness, depression even that I have failed to do ALL my part to be able to let God touch my life, for me to be able to see that light at the end of my tunnel. It never goes out, distractions just started to creep in to the point I just didn't know which way I was going.
What are some things that mean the most to you? Or who even means the most to you? Have you let these distractions take place of your duty, your loyalty, your moments to cherish, your moments for growth in your life? Do you have anger holding your anchor down? Let it go. Move forward. Distractions take away from what is SO important.
Prayer. This is another one that keeps popping up for me. And although we pray as a family every night, and I try and be diligent to do my own personal prayers each night - I do lack at times and I know when I need to be doing better. Having that conversation with Heavenly Father every night goes a long way. The light is strong at the end of the tunnel when I am, the way is made clear, and my heart isn't feeling as troubled. I always keep a prayer in my heart, which helps me so much, but I need more personal one-on-one focused conversation time with Heavenly Father. What a difference that would make. What an opportunity for growth.
You know, I often think about all the resources that have been given to us - spiritual resources - that we often times fail to accomplish. These resources are always there, they are easy to do, they give great opportunities in so many areas of life. Why the procrastination on doing some of it - natural, as we are not perfect of course, but wow - the antidote is always in front of us for happiness, for letting grudges or anger go, for a wholesome, good life --- it is so easy, yet sometimes so hard. Life is hard, I won't deny it - I have had my many days throughout that have been hell and back - but life is worth living, life is worth growing and in God's infinite wisdom He gives us these trials to give us the choice to choose to grow from. God is good in all that He does for me, for everyone.
Every day now, I always think of the lesson in Relief Society about what my distractions would be in my life, what do I need to do to get rid of them and focus on what will not only help my growth in my life, but for my children, for my husband, family, and friends. What is it that I can I let go of today that is stopping me from being my best? What do I need to do to improve spiritually, so I can also improve emotionally, and then physically? What is it? I think as long as I am aware, and doing my best, everything will turn out for the best in the end. To me, the journey is worth it when I am always aware of what I need to work on, so that it not only helps me to grow, but so I can in turn help my children grow and nurture our marriage.
08 July 2009
Sheri Dew Quotes
"There is one thing the power of God and the power of Satan have in common: Neither can influence us unless we allow them to."
— Sheri L. Dew (God Wants a Powerful People)
"We no longer have the luxury of spending our energy on anything that does not lead us and our families to Christ."
— Sheri L. Dew
"Everything that's important - you can take with you."
— Sheri L. Dew (God Wants a Powerful People)
TOTW - Let every American...
-Abraham Lincoln
29 June 2009
TOTW - The Virtue of Kindness
(Joseph B. Wirthlin, "The Virtue of Kindness," Ensign, May 2005, 28)
23 June 2009
TOTW - The Great and Wonderful Love
(Anthony D. Perkins, "The Great and Wonderful Love," Ensign, Nov. 2006, 77)
15 June 2009
TOTW - The Opportunity to Testify
"God our Heavenly Father knows us by name. Jesus Christ lives; He is the Messiah; He loves us. The Atonement of Jesus Christ is real; it brings immortality to all and opens the door to eternal life."
(Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "The Opportunity to Testify," Ensign, November 2004, 76)
08 June 2009
TOTW - The Need for Greater Kindess
(Gordon B. Hinckley, "The Need for Greater Kindness," Ensign, May 2006, 58)
01 June 2009
The Great Plan of Happiness
(Marcus B. Nash, "The Great Plan of Happiness," Ensign, Nov. 2006, 49)
25 May 2009
A Summer to Remember - TOTW
A Summer to Remember
By Carolyn Allen
Let the summer begin! And Happy Memorial Day! Whether school is out or not, Memorial Day, May 25, 2009 launches a holiday mindset and marks the beginning of the summer season for Americans. This national holiday serves as a day to remember and memorialize those who have served in the military forces. It is easily forgotten, even in a time when our soldiers in distant lands make sacrifices. What will you do to memorialize this day and make it memorable?
Perhaps you could send a letter to a solider in the Middle East , or spend time with a vet to thank him or her -- if not today, then soon! Our favorite World War II vet, Leland McCants, of Springfield Virginia , is in our own Ward and will turn 95 this next September. We have him over for dinner regularly to soak in the great spirit of his life and hear his stories. He lost his precious wife Ruby to cancer nearly 16 years ago, a son to the war in Viet Nam , and recently a son-in-law with health problems, yet he steadfastly continues to live alone in a spotless town home where he cooks and cheerfully cares for himself. He is never seen without a smile on his face, a crisp white shirt and tie, an enthusiastic greeting and a cute joke. He reads constantly and is up-to-date on current events. He does his own taxes, enjoys talking about politics and is regularly invited to speak to the young men in our ward who need inspiration and direction. His spell-binding tales about his personal experiences during the Great Depression and World War II (which ultimately led to an outstanding and exciting lifelong career in the military and an opportunity to see the world) are an inspiration for all. He is quite a guy, and based upon his full engagement with life at this point, he may very well continue to live for a long, long time.
As we finished Sunday dinner with him at our home not too long ago, my husband asked a golden question. “Mack, how have you managed so well physically throughout all these years?”
Mack cleared his throat and emphatically said, “Well, I'll tell you! When I was a teenager working outdoors with my Dad one day, he watched me working up a pretty good sweat and pointed to my heart.”
”Son,” said my dad, “The Lord can only give you one body. And only you can take care of it. Do it!”
”That has stayed with me all my life,” said Mack. “I've had my problems, of course, but not from things that were within my control. I've asked the Lord to help me take good care of myself – and He has!”
Mack's life and continuing good health are an inspiring fulfillment of one of my favorite scriptures, Psalm 37:5:
”Commit thy way unto the Lord, trust also in Him; and He shall bring it to pass.”
Mack's long and healthy life is a tribute not only to his own self-discipline, but to his dad, and to the power of prayer and the Lord. God is ever-forgiving and, remarkably, so are our bodies! Perhaps it is because they are created by Him, the Master of Forgiveness, that our bodies will literally erase and forget years of neglect as they respond almost immediately to wiser eating and exercise. As the summer begins, Memorial Day and the beginning of June is the perfect time to commit ourselves to an increase in physical strength, energy, personal fitness and self-mastery.
Many of us enjoy a bit lighter work schedule during the summer. The longer days and warmer weather make it easier to exercise. Fruits and vegetables at an affordable abundance make it easier to eat natural, nutritious food. This Memorial Day can easily mark the beginning, if you decide to make it so, an unforgettable personal season of great purpose and great progress.
After all, the scriptures tell us so! ”To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven.” (Ecclesiastes 3:1)
On Memorial Day family outing several years ago, I learned a valuable lesson and started a memorably summer season at our regional amusement park, Paramount Kings Dominion. There are enough roller coasters to thrill the most adventuresome teens, and enough flowers to thrill me. One of the rides that is fun for the whole family features a fabulous Imax/3-D theatre. After donning the 3-D glasses, we strapped ourselves into the action seats. That year the movie featured none-other than Sponge Bob Square Pants, the popular (though decidedly goofy) cartoon character.
It was all incredibly silly, yet there was supreme power in Sponge Bob's request of the pickle: “Fulfill your destiny!” Food's purpose is to provide nutrition and please us. That is its entire, God-given destiny. We take advantage of that simple divine principle when we overeat with others or binge alone.
As we picnicked later that day, I did a little experiment. After blessing the food and inviting the Lord to be with us while we ate, I mentally said to myself, “Oh, little strawberries, fulfill your destiny!” I enjoyed them immensely. They fulfilled God's plan for them in a lovely way as I savored every one. I had one (one!) chocolate chip cookie that I also asked to fulfill its purpose. When the cookies came out later in the day, I was able to remember that I'd had my cookie, its destiny had been fulfilled and I didn't need to prove that fact with another one or two or three.
As I straightened the kitchen the next morning, I faced the remains of a large birthday cake. I side-stepped the frosting and nibbling it to death by thinking “No, its destiny was fulfilled when the family enjoyed it together. Put it away now.” And with a quick prayer, I was able to.
When you step back, everything we eat has a purpose or destiny, and when we can establish that purpose, we can establish ourselves, our own weight loss, and more readily see our own great purpose as well.
Between the Lord to make it eternal, a War Veteran to make it valuable and memorable, and a cartoon character to make it fun, how can we go wrong? Make a plan! Set a schedule! Get to the grocery store! Then memorize the scriptures and thoughts below and make them your mantra for your most memorably healthy summer ever!
Happy Memorial Day!
”Commit thy way unto the Lord, trust also in Him; and He shall bring it to pass.”
(Psalm 37:5)
“Only one body, only one me to take care of it!”
Brother Leland McCants
”To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven.”
Ecclesiastes 3:1
“Fulfill your divine destiny!”
Sponge Bob